life issues...
...im having a lot of issues with school and friends...i go to this catholic school...i got a lot of detentions last year so this year im on 'probation'...i have no privledges and if i get more than 5 detentions a semester im suspended...ive already gone over the detentions plus my best friend has been vandalizing in the bathrooms and outside the school...someone told the principal that i did it...i didnt want my friend to get in trouble so i took the blame for it...now i have to go in front of student council...im gonna be suspended but i might be expelled for something i didnt do...i dont know what to do...plus im mad at her right now...shes mad at me for a stupid reason after i did all this for her...shes changed so much from last year i dont even know if i know her anymore...im really confused...should i take the blame for something i didnt do? is that the right thing to do?
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raves +1 posted Nov 04, 2007 11:05PM GMT
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she should take the blame. sure she's your friend, but she vandalized the bathroom. so she should confess. -
raves posted Nov 04, 2007 08:38PM GMTyes i hav other close friends too...nd i do feel like shes using me...im just not sure...and thanks for the advice...
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raves +1 posted Nov 04, 2007 07:41PM GMTno, I don't think so.
You've taken the blame for her so many other times, I'm sure, and she's being mad at YOU? She should be thanking you.
It sounds like she's 'abusing' you, like stepping all over you. She'll do something bad, but she won't care cuz she knows you'll take the blame for it.
I don't know...Is she your BEST friend? Do you have others that you'll be able to fall back on if your friendship does turn sour? -
raves +1 posted Nov 04, 2007 06:40PM GMTi understand why you took the blame for your friend, its natural to help someone you care about out when they are in trouble. I know i have dont this many times. That makes you a wonderful friend, but look what she has done in return. You are better than her in many ways, she has no respect for you. When i have done this in the past it hasnt gotten me nothing good in return. You need to worry about yourself. These decisions that you make early in your life will reflect and effect you in your future. f you decided to cover up what she truely did then thisdecision will take you down a very bad path and may have negative effects on your school and job life in the future. Think about what is best for you. Take responsibilty for what you did, not what she did. Let her learn the hard way. Be there to support her, but dont go down with her. And if you do decided to take the blame, just know that she will get whats coming to her in another way. I believe in karma. Good luck and take care. I wish you many years of enless hapiness and good decision making. :o)
