I Eat Soggy Eggrolls For Lunch While Someone is Trying For MyMan

I am at a loss. My hubby .. who all of you that know me.. is the ultimate love of my life.. is slowly slipping away I feel.. We have been together for 8 years.. married for 6. .. and he has been texting this Chelsey chick from North Carolina for awhile now.. she is calling him her Prince.. and she is compromising our time together texting him back... of course.. my hubby is at fault as well.. try as I may.. bringing up every valid point in the book.. crying.... etc.. I am even trying to find her myself over the net so I can let her know that she is in unwelcome territory and had better back off.. I waited a looong time for my love.. and she thinks she can come in and tear him away.. well.. she's got another thing coming.. My husband has some crazy notion that I will move with him to N Carolina.. I said.. move if you like.. but you will be moving there without me.. I am at an almost close to panic level and I bother him about it all the time.. and he says I am driving him away.. Sooo.. what am I supposed to do.. sit there quietly and let this little whatever she is ruin what we have been spending 8 years building.. which is our lives together.. She has a son who is 9 when she is 30 years old.. I haven't any children yet.. and we were going to start trying soon.. well.. with her in the picture.. I am reluctant to even think about it anymore.. no since in bringing any poor kid into this marriage.. which might be nonexistent.. if I can't get to this chick.. I am on the lookout...that's for sure.. I am not about to lie down and let this fluesey move in on what's rightfully mine..