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raves posted Jul 10, 2008 07:30AM GMT
Answered Undecided
I'd have to say it depends on how big the fight is.......... like if it's a little one....... It'll be good........... because you'll learn from your mistakes or whatever....... but if it's big....... you could end up ruining your relationship -
raves +1 posted Jun 21, 2008 12:57AM GMT
Answered yes
Its normal and healthy as long as neither party is going on a all out personal attack....sometimes its better to leave when things have gotten to the point where you feel like you will say something you don't mean and come back to the discussion with a cooler head. Angry words can really wound someone when they care deeply for the other so whenever possible its best to avoid that kind of fight. -
raves +2 Jun 20, 2008 10:15PM GMTSo very true. And if you let your anger known instead of holding it in things can be resolved. If people just act like everything is okay they will snap. I know for a fact because that is what happened to me. Now my husband and I talk about it and I feel so much better. There is less stress and he seems happier. I think it is healthy.
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raves +1 Jun 20, 2008 10:12PM GMTWell, if you guys are fighting just to fight and not a find a solution that could be a problem. The best thing is to not accuse and just tell your partner how these certian things make you feel. It may be a good idea to ask politely that they didn't accuse you of anything either. Talk about the action and how it affects the both of you and give options for the best way to resolve that problem. Work together (^_^)
Answered yes
I wouldnt say fighting.....but, its totally normal to disagree sometimes. I think its healthy for a relationship when you can disagree about things and move on. Nobody can get along 100% of the time!