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When is it right for a couple to have sex for the first time, in your opinion?

When is it right for a couple to have sex for the first time, in your opinion?

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When you first go out
Within the first couple of dates
When you officially become steady
When you been going out a couple of months
The night you become engaged
Wedding night

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raves +19 by MATTGUNNS posted Jun 26, 2008 09:05PM GMT

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Answered When you first go out

Preferably within the first 20 minutes.

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raves [-] by A7X Fan posted Sep 17, 2008 01:55AM GMTSeptember 17, 2008 01:55:34

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Answered Wedding night
wow
raves [-] by Bardo posted Jul 06, 2008 09:26PM GMTJuly 06, 2008 21:26:49

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Answered Wedding night
I guess I am old fashion.
raves [-] by Foo Master doesn't like Change posted Jun 30, 2008 04:16PM GMTJune 30, 2008 16:16:28

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Answered When you first go out
I guess it really comes down to how drunk you are....
raves [-] by Luckyliz posted Jun 30, 2008 02:09PM GMTJune 30, 2008 14:09:42

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Answered Within the first couple of dates
I really don't kno. They should do it whenever they're ready. How am I supposed to know ? I'm only 14 and I don't plan any teenage pregnacies .I'm still a virgin.I think about this when I'm like 28.
raves +1 [-] by aace posted Jun 29, 2008 12:50PM GMTJune 29, 2008 12:50:07

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Answered Wedding night
old fashioned guy here
raves [-] by Anjirocks posted Jun 29, 2008 07:32AM GMTJune 29, 2008 07:32:38

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Answered Within the first couple of dates
when you're both at the legal age!!!

i see so many 14 year olds etc on this site talking about sex and it really worries me....

i have (as some people may see it) "rushed into" having sex before but i was above the age of consent and it felt like the right, natural time. there is no right timescale to put to this question; the answer is when you're ready, it doesn't matter how long you've been together, two hours or two years, whatever works for you.
raves [-] Luckyliz replied to Anjirocks Jun 30, 2008 02:17PM GMTJune 30, 2008 14:17:30

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I'm 14 but I don't want to jack up my life having kids. I'm not saying that having kids is jacked up but it might jack my life up at that point in time.Having a teen pregnacy might ruin my chance of getting in to Harvard.
raves [-] Anjirocks replied to Luckyliz Jun 30, 2008 03:40PM GMTJune 30, 2008 15:40:06

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good on you for being sensible!
raves [-] Luckyliz replied to Anjirocks Jun 30, 2008 03:49PM GMTJune 30, 2008 15:49:13

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thank u.
raves [-] by brittney paige posted Jun 29, 2008 12:02AM GMTJune 29, 2008 00:02:15

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Answered Within the first couple of dates
Prom night is good for high schoolers. unless their religion says no...
raves +1 [-] by Mr. Nichols posted Jun 28, 2008 07:52PM GMTJune 28, 2008 19:52:58

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Answered When you first go out
None of the options fit. It should just be when both people want to. If you wanna do it, then do it. The whole, "it's slutty to have sex on the first date" thing is just preposterous. Two consenting adults should do it when they want. Whether that is the first, second, or eighteenth date.
raves [-] by fll posted Jun 28, 2008 07:49PM GMTJune 28, 2008 19:49:39

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Answered Within the first couple of dates
Wow! It varies depending on the people involved, the relationsgip itself...for some, the very first date is good, others take a few more dates...it' s all according....there is no absolute rule from my experience, anyway...
raves [-] by kkheavenisme posted Jun 27, 2008 07:23PM GMTJune 27, 2008 19:23:19

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Answered When you been going out a couple of months
idk
wen u know ur ready
raves [-] flutterby ~ aka huckster fan replied to kkheavenisme Jun 29, 2008 12:13PM GMTJune 29, 2008 12:13:34

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You should not be thinking about this at 13 years old! You have so many other things to be thinking about at your age!
raves [-] kkheavenisme replied to flutterby ~ aka huckster fan Jun 29, 2008 09:22PM GMTJune 29, 2008 21:22:18

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i know i'm not thinking about it lol
raves [-] by PRINCESS posted Jun 27, 2008 05:19PM GMTJune 27, 2008 17:19:55

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Answered Within the first couple of dates
I DON'T THINK THERE IS REALLY A TIME YOU SHOULD DO IT. ITS MORE LIKE WHEN YOU FEEL ITS RIGHT, IT MAY BE THE FIRST TIME YOU MEET OR IT COULD BE A YEAR INTO THE RELATIONSHIP. I SAY JUST GO WITH THE FLOW!!!!!
raves [-] by divingpilot posted Jun 27, 2008 05:10PM GMTJune 27, 2008 17:10:54

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Answered When you first go out
...if you both want to...why not...?...otherwise, just do it whenever you both want to...we are only ony of three species that does it for pleasure...so...
raves +1 [-] by NattiFan posted Jun 27, 2008 03:47PM GMTJune 27, 2008 15:47:42

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Answered When you first go out
I wish there was a choice for "When they both feel the time is right." It could be the first date for some, and for others, it could be their wedding night.
raves [-] by Kierbear posted Jun 27, 2008 02:40PM GMTJune 27, 2008 14:40:30

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Answered When you been going out a couple of months
I guess when you feel comfortable with each other and trusting.
raves [-] by shortyz posted Jun 27, 2008 02:59AM GMTJune 27, 2008 02:59:13

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Answered Within the first couple of dates
I say if you feel it go for it just use protection - always..
raves [-] by lfc posted Jun 27, 2008 01:47AM GMTJune 27, 2008 01:47:17

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Answered Within the first couple of dates
By them you should know if you want to ...
raves [-] by ksyvicks posted Jun 27, 2008 01:17AM GMTJune 27, 2008 01:17:10

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Answered When you been going out a couple of months
moderated...
raves +3 [-] by Smokey posted Jun 27, 2008 12:04AM GMTJune 27, 2008 00:04:51

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Answered Wedding night
Whatever happened to the "old fashion way?" My fiance and I are waiting for our wedding night. It's not always good to use the "I drive it before I drive it attitude."
raves [-] by Rubi posted Jun 27, 2008 12:00AM GMTJune 27, 2008 00:00:04

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Answered When you officially become steady
it doesnt matter when you have sex. as long as you do it for Love
raves +1 [-] by Neo posted Jun 26, 2008 10:11PM GMTJune 26, 2008 22:11:15

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Answered When you first go out
The first date if possible.
raves [-] by TripMarz555 posted Jun 26, 2008 09:06PM GMTJune 26, 2008 21:06:15

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Answered Within the first couple of dates
when you feel comfortable.... better to find out sooner if you're compatible.
raves +19 [-] by MATTGUNNS posted Jun 26, 2008 09:05PM GMTJune 26, 2008 21:05:29

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Answered When you first go out
Preferably within the first 20 minutes.
raves [-] by Sajama posted Jun 26, 2008 08:51PM GMTJune 26, 2008 20:51:51

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Answered When you first go out
moderated...
raves +3 [-] by Angel posted Jun 26, 2008 08:16PM GMTJune 26, 2008 20:16:09

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Answered Within the first couple of dates
really the couple will know when they want to have sex their chemistry will tell them..
raves +1 [-] by Hard Candy ~COB posted Jun 26, 2008 07:37PM GMTJune 26, 2008 19:37:57 (edited)

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Answered Within the first couple of dates
Assuming we're talking about adults rather than teenagers.

It's different for everyone and it depends on several factors. Personal preference and chemistry as a couple being the biggest influences. Hard to say, really -- whenever it feels right. :) I guess it mostly depends on the couple's

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raves +2 [-] by scrshaw posted Jun 26, 2008 07:35PM GMTJune 26, 2008 19:35:48

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Answered When you first go out
Life is far too short to waist time!
raves +3 [-] by Florida Keys posted Jun 26, 2008 07:25PM GMTJune 26, 2008 19:25:10

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Answered When you first go out
What do you think?
raves +4 [-] by .... posted Jun 26, 2008 07:21PM GMTJune 26, 2008 19:21:32

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Answered Wedding night
moderated...
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