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How old do you think teens or tweens should be to become "sexually active?"?

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raves +3   by xX_live-love-die_Xx

Answered None of the above

whenever they feel ready...it is their choose, not mine
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  • raves     [-] by lsuchick1292

    Answered Undecided

    i dunno....i guess when u are ready...i just suggest to be careful. the person that u give ur virginity to is not the one that u will stay with forever now days and that is something that is very emotional.....i just hope that when that day comes for my daughter that she will feel comfortable enough to tell me so that i can protect her....i want both of my kids to live life to the absolute fullest before they get "hunkered down..."
  • raves +1   [-] by BAMAGIRL

    Answered Undecided

    When they find the right person and they are ready; however, I don't think you should be getting this advice from people on SH...
  • raves +1   [-] by Steve

    Answered 15-17

    moderated...
  • raves +1   [-] by Emily

    Answered Undecided

    well i think about 16 but what do i have 2 say i had sex at 14 and had kids at 14 and don't even ask me how that went but just 2 tell you i did keep my baby
  • raves +1   [-] by Amanda

    Answered None of the above

    Do it when you're ready. I don't advice on it too early because that could (and I said COULD) lead to future issues. Whenever the time is right and it varies.
  • raves +1   [-] by cronewinter

    Answered None of the above

    when they are old enough to understand and constructively deal with the consequences
  • raves +3   [-] by xX_live-love-die_Xx

    Answered None of the above

    whenever they feel ready...it is their choose, not mine
  • raves +1   [-] by ~♥~HoT LoSeR 4EvR~♥~
    love the anwser
  • raves +1   [-] by Wicked (Brutal)

    Answered never when their married

    at least that's what it will be if i ever have a kid! Lock em up and throw away the key!
  • raves +1   [-] by Stix

    Answered None of the above

    It would depend on the maturity of the kid, and their reason for wanting to have sex, the time involved with the person they are about to have sex with.
    Definately not before 15 as there is no way you have the maturity to even understand what sex is at that age.
  • raves     [-] by Bran Bran

    Answered never when their married

    EXACLY WUT I CHECKED SAYS
  • raves     [-] by ...

    Answered Undecided

    IDK WEN THEY TRULY FEEL THEYRE IN LOVE I GUESS
  • raves +2   [-] by Kika

    Answered Undecided

    I dont know when the right age is. I sincerely doubt its in the 11 to 16 range though. When I was that age I swore I knew what I was doing and that I was soooo mature and that my mom didn't know what she was talking about. Lol I would tell her that she "doesn't understand" and that we live in more modern times. But now that I am a little bit older I understand why my parents said certain things and now I know that they were right. If I could turn back time I would have waited for sex a few more years. When I was REALLY ready not when I thought I was.
  • raves     [-] by Maria

    Answered never when their married

    really parents job to talk to them about sex issue, and not to have it in young it is mentally damages on girls at young age. sex is suppose to be for marriage not outside marriage life. because you only give your husband not a boyfriend, boyfriend can walk out anytime.
  • raves     [-] by Stix
    A husband or wife can walk out anytime also. You see it everyday. It is called divorce, or abandonment.
  • raves     [-] by Maria
    yes you making other point that true.
  • raves +1   [-] by iM iN L0VE WiTH A REAL MAN

    Answered Undecided

    well i dont think anybody should be having sex until their parents have went through the whole "snake in the garden" talk
  • raves     [-] by [[♥]]

    Answered None of the above

    when they're married and at least in they're 20 's
  • raves     [-] by Mr. Nichols

    Answered None of the above

    No younger than 16.
  • raves     [-] by Caitlyn

    Answered None of the above

    Married or ready for it, with becoming sexually active comes a lot of responsibility and a lot of tweens and teens don't realize that.
  • raves     [-] by Millky Way

    Answered None of the above

    well first off...tweens should not get pregnant but if you do get pregnant as a teenager it should be at 18 or 19 at the least.....ppl are getting pregnant very young these days... tweens pregnant pregnant teenager 18 19 ppl pregnant young days
  • raves     [-] by ~♥~HoT LoSeR 4EvR~♥~
    i know right?!?!?! i already have a nefue and anothers about to come
  • raves     [-] by The Great Simonski

    Answered 15-17

    Whenever they feel they're ready
  • raves     [-] by Denny

    Answered 11-13

    There's no one right or wrong answer for everyone. I wish kids would wait longer for sexual intercourse to avoid the risk of pregnancy, but I see no problem with doing other things as soon as they become aware that they want to. So I answered 11-13. But that has to be qualified a little, because in some states it's illegal to have sex with someone under age X, even if both partners are the same age; technically they would be guilty of raping each other. A lot of kids have had their lives ruined that way: see www.ethicaltreatment.org for some horrible examples.
  • raves +2   [-] by brady969

    Answered None of the above

    I think it's important to talk with your kids about sex and it depends on the person. I think an appropriate age is 17 and up. In a perfect world, someone would wait until they knew they were with the person they love.

    Marriage is a sham!
  • raves +2   [-] by ~♥~HoT LoSeR 4EvR~♥~
    nice answer
  • raves     [-] by ,,:://LaZyBear;. Ron Paul 2008

    Answered None of the above

    18+
  • raves     [-] by DEEP

    Answered 15-17

    moderated...
  • raves     [-] by ~♥~HoT LoSeR 4EvR~♥~
    did u have fun watchin that
  • raves     [-] by DEEP
    moderated...
  • raves +2   [-] by **Stephanie**

    Answered Undecided

    there cant be a set age because teens and tweens r gonna do whatever they want anyways !!
  • raves     [-] by ~♥~HoT LoSeR 4EvR~♥~
    I LOVE THAT ANSWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • raves     [-] by *~M31@n!3~*