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General Family, Home & Relationships
Certain aspects are different for everyone, I just want to know what most people consider in general, things that can cause the most problems between couples these days, and wind up leading to divorce. Pick the one you that would feel causes the most problems today between couples.
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Answered None of the above
divorce is a huge mistake but for other people who cheat,lies,con artist,not respect toward eachother, not enough time together. they need to seek marriage counsler instead of walk away with a load of thoughts and wonder.
they didn't go to marriage counsler to begin with. how sad that they end on their own.
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Answered infidelity
Cheating is not right doesn't matter if you are married or just in a long term relationship. When you love someone you don't do that, cause that person has given you the precious gifts of their heart, love, and trust. To cause someone else that kind of pain is selfish. -
Answered Alchohol or drugs
I almost answered infidelity straight up, but then seen the option for drugs or alcohol, each a prominent ingredient in leading to infidelity.
I also blame Hollywood for a lot of divorces, not only because of the horrid examples the actors and actresses set in their real lives, but because of the impossibly high standards they set for romance in their movies. I can't count how many times I've received the stink-eye whilst watching a chick flick with my wife. Those guys are entirely too romantic, and make us average guys look like neanderthals.
Oh, and I was kind of joking about the second part... sort of. -
Answered None of the above
I think it is that people just give up to easily. Divorce has been made so easy to get that any reason someone comes up with they can file and it is pretty much excepted. Look at some of the answers to chose from, Money, friends of the hsuband or wife. What the heck kind of reasons are these. My personal belief is that if one of the spouses is being abused that is a reason for divorce. Most anything else can be worked out if people know that they have to. Divorce has for awhile now been having a major impact on or children. Many suffer a good deal from a divorce. I am fortunate in that my husband holds the same beliefs that I do on this. We have had a number of times where money was a major issue. We struggled very hard it was all because I couldn't work anymore and had no income. We managed to work through it. People have to be willing to try. Yes I have gotten off subject here but it is something that really bothers me how loosely that people take marriage. Look around at how many are on their 3rd or 4th wife/husband. It is rediculous, -
Answered None of the above
it's due to spoiledness, laziness, lack of patience, lack of self control, the inability to make wise decisions, lack of persistence, the constant pursuit of doing things the easy way instead of sticking with it, the lack of work ethic--because marriage is work, or at least you have to work at it. this is a good start. -
Answered None of the above
I think it is more like arguments and disagreements about a variety of things about things that shouldn't ever really matter. Or sometimes things just don't work out. Some things are just not meant to be. Some people can get divorced, yah maybe their relationship will never be as good as it was before, but they can still be civil in the same room. -
Answered None of the above
As long as you tried to work it out . Marriage is a full time job . You need 2 people to make it work .Too many take marriage lightly . You should be in it for the long haul . That is why I am single . I never found anyone who I could take 24/7 ..........
Answered None of the above
I got divorce because Much like bondock saints, i couldn't go to the corner store with out running into 9 guys she fu**ed. So either divorce her, Or find a hole deep enough to place her in.