Jul 19, 2008 04:02AM GMT
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Relationships - Families & Parenting
Have you ever had to walk away from love and watch it grow with someone else and swallow it deep inside and put on your pretend smile as you died inside?
question states it all? this one is for you my special friend I want you to know you are not alone ....*huggles and comfort for you*
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raves +1 posted Jul 19, 2008 09:46PM GMT
Answered yes and it kills me
Yep and it killed me inside for a good year or so. I'm totally fine now, it was a while ago. This is why it's important NOT to ditch your friends. They are going to be the ones there to help you pick up the pieces. I have never been one of those people that blow my friends off for a new love interest. -
raves +2 posted Jul 19, 2008 04:58PM GMT
Answered Undecided
I loved someone once and let him go when I found out a bunch of stuff about him that I had no idea about, I was with him for 13 years and it killed me at first, but looking at him now does nothing for me, he has gone on to relationship after relationship, he cheats on every girl he is with, he is a drug addict and not a very great person, we do have a child together so I still have to have contact with him, but I laugh now cuz I was lucky enough to let him go and watch him fail. I have someone else now who is so much better and I don't regret letting him go at all -
raves +1 posted Jul 19, 2008 04:49PM GMT
Answered yes and it kills me
Wow. Great question. This happened somewhat. I had a love from when I was a child. I was with her for...10 years. I always thought I would marry her. I lost contact with her after highschool. I saw her 2 years later. She had been with someone, became pregnant, boyfriend lost his life in a drug deal, and she turned ghetto. I was so sad. She still has no idea. I now lost contact again. I still love her and cannot find her. I am sad. I don't know what to feel.
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raves +1 Jul 19, 2008 06:54PM GMTWow I have one of those too.....but like every 5 or so years he gets in contact with my parents to see how I am doing so I am sure he feels the same way....we never dated we were best of friends but in High school we were from different clicks and even now the same .....I miss his laughter but I am sure we have both grown as people......but I still wonder of the could have been if we were both not so weak to give into the pressures of Teen clicks!
that shows my age LMAO -
raves +3 posted Jul 19, 2008 02:08PM GMT
Answered yes and it kills me
It didn't kill me but it hurt like hell. A one time best friend, started dating anX and later married her. When ever I see them together it just gets to me, they had the nerve to invite me to the wedding. I told him he already had my old stomping grounds he didn't need me there. -
raves +2 posted Jul 19, 2008 01:41PM GMT
Answered Undecided
yes i have a couple times.but it wont kill, ME..lol yes it hurts sometimes,life is just full of challenges.THAT is what makes ya stronger..i loved a man that i got along great with but my daughter hated him,he hated her..it would never work,i had to wallk away and yes he met a another with no kids,sucked but you must carry on...sometimes ya just gotta walk away cause no matter how ya feel the other may not be good for you..habits or lifestyle etc...im a pro now, i guess...i have a hard time getting that close anymore...my heart is stone..
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raves +1 Jul 20, 2008 07:38AM GMTthanks hun im too drunk though but at least im home...lol went swimmin drunk and ill prob pass out drunk lol you are so cool your bf better be happy with you cause you ae cool...i wanna whip ass just to relieve the stress im under but no one will challenge me ....whats up w that...even if i lose ill feel better ...been out to the bars no one ....come on... im soooooo bad i know... but im really so good most of the time ...just so much stress....gonna fall outta my chair lol maybe if do it will be like beatin myself up lol,too drunk lol nite hun hope alls well ...dont be a drunk like me kk u 2 sweet for that. im old and stupid sometimes...lol
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raves +1
Answered yes and it kills me
it hurt so deep inside that you want to cry but your emotions are too weak to do it!