Dec 12, 2007 08:38PM GMTDecember 12, 2007 20:38:25
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If your girlfriend, boyfriend, wife or husband was flirting online via email, IM or on a website like this or myspace, with another person of the opposit sex, would you consider it cheating??

If your girlfriend, boyfriend, wife or husband was flirting online via email, IM or on a website like this or myspace, with another person of the opposit sex, would you consider it cheating??

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raves +4   by Adi posted Dec 12, 2007 10:54PM GMTDecember 12, 2007 22:54:08
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Answered Undecided

But, i'd argue, if gone un-caught, they would be more likely to step it up and potentially cross that boundary.
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  • raves     [-] by ddkloster posted Nov 15, 2008 06:37AM GMTNovember 15, 2008 06:37:49
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    Answered Undecided

    would not like it. not at all. but cheating? i guess it depends on what was going on. i know it seems strange but i just saw a thing saying that there is more then one way to cheat. there is a thing call emotional cheating. from what i understand it is when you get all the emotional suport or feed back that you need from someone else.
  • raves     [-] by TC Peterson posted Nov 13, 2008 10:07PM GMTNovember 13, 2008 22:07:29
    TC Peterson reply

    Answered No

    no, my girlfriend would never cheat on me so i dont have 2 worry about that girlfriend cheat 2 worry
  • raves     [-] by SuperCee posted Nov 11, 2008 04:00PM GMTNovember 11, 2008 16:00:29
    SuperCee reply

    Answered Yes

    Any attachment to the opposite sex is cheating in my book.
  • raves     [-] by Another Benjamite posted Nov 06, 2008 09:27PM GMTNovember 06, 2008 21:27:04
    Another Benjamite reply

    Answered Undecided

    As long as it doesn't turn into a meeting or something like that, I wouldn't have a problem with it. You can get hungry somewhere else, as long as you come to me for the meal!
  • raves +1   [-] by missg777 is a bitter American posted Nov 06, 2008 08:57PM GMTNovember 06, 2008 20:57:28
    missg777 is a bitter American reply

    Answered Yes

    but it depends on the depth of flirtation and if they actually know the person too, then i could be convinced it's nothing.
  • raves +2   [-] by ♥BreebbyBAMF[YourCupCakeQ... posted Nov 06, 2008 08:41PM GMTNovember 06, 2008 20:41:59
    ♥BreebbyBAMF[YourCupCakeQueen] reply

    Answered Undecided

    yes and no. if they are dating me shouldn't they be focusing on me? not someone on the interwebs?
  • raves +2   [-] by Nevermore posted Nov 06, 2008 08:40PM GMTNovember 06, 2008 20:40:59
    Nevermore reply

    Answered Undecided

    I flirt with people online and offline. I have no intention to stop. Ever. I know my husband flirts with other women, and I'm okay with that as long as he isn't doing any more than flirting and it's nothing physical, and as long as he has the respect not to do it in front of me. Now, that's just flirting. Cybersex, to me, is cheating. I wouldn't put it on the same level as cheating offline, no way. But it's being unfaithful, unless your partner is okay with it.
  • raves +1   [-] by Dreeze posted Nov 06, 2008 08:39PM GMTNovember 06, 2008 20:39:03
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    Answered No

    Flirting with someone you don't know isn't a big deal. You're not telling them your life story and trying to meet up with them and have a cosmic connection. As long as that line isn't crossed you're fine. Do you know how many times I've seen people send each other racy photos but it's all in good fun and humor. Cheating I feel has an actual physical or emotional connection.
  • raves +1   [-] by Hukaatir posted Nov 06, 2008 08:31PM GMTNovember 06, 2008 20:31:07
    Hukaatir reply

    Answered No

    Flirting is not the same as cheating.
  • raves +1   [-] by DefenderofourFlag posted Nov 06, 2008 07:53PM GMTNovember 06, 2008 19:53:50
    DefenderofourFlag reply

    Answered No

    I do it too!!!
  • raves +1   [-] by lollipopgirl85 posted Oct 06, 2008 03:05AM GMTOctober 06, 2008 03:05:09
    lollipopgirl85 reply

    Answered Yes

    totally!
  • raves     [-] by ashley nicole posted Sep 07, 2008 10:47PM GMTSeptember 07, 2008 22:47:42
    ashley nicole reply

    Answered Yes

    i act like i dont know cuz i really like him so its like im the dumb one.....
  • raves +1   [-] by SouloCutz posted Jul 12, 2008 09:19PM GMTJuly 12, 2008 21:19:05 (edited)
    SouloCutz reply

    Answered No

    I flirt and it helps me spice up my relationship. It's sort of like practice and practice does make perfect. I see what makes the women of today smile then I come back home with a similar compliment or joke to see her smile, too. Women like guys that make them smile so if I don't flirt once and a while, I could lose my touch and I ain't letting that happen.

    But, I absolutely NEVER give them my number or meet them.
  • raves     [-] by Tiki posted May 26, 2008 01:58AM GMTMay 26, 2008 01:58:54
    Tiki reply

    Answered Yes

    I don't think anyone in a serious relationship should be really
    flirting with anyone else. it can seem harmless, but it shows you don't respect your partner and can really hurt them in the long run. flirting can also lead to more and eventually the end of your relationship.
  • raves   -1 [-] by loky posted Apr 10, 2008 05:11AM GMTApril 10, 2008 05:11:59
    loky reply

    Answered No

    Its not cheating until they meet at a motel . A little flirting is good for the soul.This is the best way to do it . Normal people would just keep it in there computer and let it go at that. You never know who someone is until you meet them. It could be a serial killer at the other end of this thing.
  • raves     [-] by suzie posted Apr 10, 2008 04:45AM GMTApril 10, 2008 04:45:55
    suzie reply

    Answered Undecided

    I don't know if I would consider it cheating. But I'd have some really serious concerns. Really serious.
  • raves     [-] by Josie posted Mar 30, 2008 05:46PM GMTMarch 30, 2008 17:46:57
    Josie reply

    Answered Undecided

    I wouldn't say it was cheating, but I would get mad and ask/tell them to stop.
  • raves +2   [-] by Chazsbabe posted Mar 11, 2008 10:36PM GMTMarch 11, 2008 22:36:58
    Chazsbabe reply

    Answered Yes

    If you let it carry on who knows wot it could lead to, I have been there and it aint nice next bf i have must not own a pc cos it has ruined my trust.
  • raves +3   [-] Squint replied to Chazsbabe Apr 10, 2008 04:38AM GMTApril 10, 2008 04:38:38
    Squint reply
    The PC wasn't the problem, Chaz, it was the man!
  • raves     [-] by Maria posted Mar 08, 2008 12:09PM GMTMarch 08, 2008 12:09:59
    Maria reply

    Answered Undecided

    cheat, is when you start to saying I love you that sort of lead right up. but flirt is what make other happy. as long it not sex. why can't you bring your partner or husband/wife to sit and share and watch you do IMs website etc for sure it's honest right there than go behind partner or husband/wife's back. it a laughable moment.
  • raves     [-] by Foxy Girl posted Feb 12, 2008 05:05PM GMTFebruary 12, 2008 17:05:04
    Foxy Girl reply

    Answered No

    I do it, Im doing it right now
  • raves     [-] by SeXy BuNnY posted Feb 10, 2008 02:44AM GMTFebruary 10, 2008 02:44:58
    SeXy BuNnY reply

    Answered Yes

    HELL YEAH!
  • raves +1   [-] by Trinity posted Jan 13, 2008 01:04AM GMTJanuary 13, 2008 01:04:18
    Trinity reply

    Answered No

    We have an open but honest relationship so its fine as long he is'nt lying about it.
  • raves     [-] by Crystal posted Jan 09, 2008 07:34PM GMTJanuary 09, 2008 19:34:09
    Crystal reply

    Answered Undecided

    there is a fine line there
  • raves     [-] by Rockin_Heather21 posted Jan 08, 2008 07:57PM GMTJanuary 08, 2008 19:57:00
    Rockin_Heather21 reply

    Answered Yes

    If they were talking to someone else on-line telling them they don't have a significant other -n- such and/or haveing cyber sex, yes that is cheating in my opinion...If they are just talking about random stuff to just conversate with someone,then I don't think that should be considered cheating...I know I'd be pissed if my boyfriend was on the net flirting and getting personal with someone else!
  • raves +1   [-] by TBone posted Jan 03, 2008 02:37AM GMTJanuary 03, 2008 02:37:42
    TBone reply

    Answered Yes

    I have a very broad idea of the word cheat that encompasses a lot... I would not do that to someone I was with so I would expect them not to do it to me either...
  • raves     [-] by Foo Master doesn't like Change posted Jan 03, 2008 02:32AM GMTJanuary 03, 2008 02:32:39
    Foo Master doesn't like Change reply

    Answered No

    I don't know that I'd consider it cheating, but I certainly wouldn't be happy about it.
  • raves     [-] by itzjussme posted Jan 02, 2008 09:10PM GMTJanuary 02, 2008 21:10:30
    itzjussme reply

    Answered Yes

    YeAeAEA
  • raves +1   [-] by Long Beach Dog Lover posted Dec 20, 2007 12:28AM GMTDecember 20, 2007 00:28:46
    Long Beach Dog Lover reply

    Answered No

    Flirting is not cheating. I wouldn't appreciate it, however , I think it would make me fire-up the lovin' a bit. If someone isn't getting it in the bedroom, they will get it somewhere!!!!!!!!!
  • raves     [-] by Monique posted Dec 20, 2007 12:01AM GMTDecember 20, 2007 00:01:01
    Monique reply

    Answered No

    Its flirting not having sex! Gosh, if he was trying to get her number to hook up, then... thats a different story.
  • raves +2   [-] by Fernando posted Dec 19, 2007 10:34PM GMTDecember 19, 2007 22:34:36
    Fernando reply

    Answered No

    No but I will tell you this much it can lead to it....and if they are flirting with the opposite than that just shows that they lack alot of respect for their partner even if its innocent flirting...thats something that you get straight checked for lol....
  • raves +1   [-] Monique replied to Fernando Dec 20, 2007 12:02AM GMTDecember 20, 2007 00:02:21
    Monique reply
    nicely said.
  • raves     [-] Natasha replied to Fernando Dec 20, 2007 09:39PM GMTDecember 20, 2007 21:39:30
    Natasha reply
    My thoughts exactly........... "shows that they lack alot of respect for their partner even if its innocent flirting".
    So