Mar 17, 2008 04:40PM GMTMarch 17, 2008 16:40:48
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When married and caught cheating which is worse?

I simultaneously had both dreams about this. God forbid the day I cheat on my wife.
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raves +3   by Bambi

Answered Cheating in an affair

Really I am undecided. At least if it's with a hooker there is no chance or a relationship and it is just sex. With an affair they end up being relationships and can potentially lead into a relationship. I think it would hurt worse to have my mate fall in love with someone else than to cheat. Sex is just sex but love is a whole different story.
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  • raves     [-] by j

    Answered Cheating with a hooker

    both of them..because either way...its wrong!
  • raves     [-] by catfood

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    A slut is worth less then a real person, but depending on who the real person is. If the real person is someone you hate, then it would be far worse. But anyways, a slut being cheated on with shows the person thinks you are like worth like the slut, money, or they are probably drunk/high and went to a strip joint. An affair, is more the full cheating, and like once you leave and remarry with cheating, it will follow you. Your kids usually will not forgive you. I have been cheated on etc etc, but never had children, hopefully I don't have any from this recent loss of virginity ><
  • raves     [-] by MS

    Answered Cheating with a hooker

    With a hooker, it's her job and the deep motivation isn't there. Boring.
  • raves     [-] by Onnas3

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    Really both
  • raves     [-] by Administrator

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    Its a reoccurring thing.
  • raves     [-] by ♥Lizzy-Charmed Lover♥

    Answered Cheating with a hooker

    Both
  • raves     [-] by diane

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    Because there are feelings exchanged in an affair - there is nothing but money exchanged with a hooker
  • raves     [-] by Electric Ladybug *SHTB*

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    i say both are bad..but cheating in an affair, b/c its gone way past physical and into emotional. hypothetically speaking, i wouldnt get as upset if my hubby had a one night stand as if he were to have an affair. one night stand it was just a one time, wham bam thank you mam' kinda thing, with an affair, he's putting thought, time and feelings into it. If he's not going to love me 100% then i consider that worse than ANY amount of sex he could have with random chicks! (am i wierd for thinking like that? lol)
  • raves     [-] by daveygater

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    an affair could mean more substantial feelings motivated the cheating
  • raves     [-] by mah patriots

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    i think married or not the pain is the same the trust eveything goes the same u earn it back the same
  • raves +1   [-] by roger

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    Just ask hillary
  • raves +1   [-] by Electric Ladybug *SHTB*
    lol thats funny! two thumbs up for you!
  • raves     [-] by roger
    where's the other thumb?
  • raves +1   [-] by diane
    I always had a different finger for Bill and Hillary
  • raves     [-] by roger
    you got that right!
  • raves     [-] by chris

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    I wouldn't be happy with either. With an affair I'd beat the guy's ass. With hooker I'd only beat his ass if he had my money.
  • raves     [-] by greybeard

    Answered Cheating with a hooker

    They're both lust and both are costly!
  • raves     [-] by Veronica

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    BOTH are just as Horribly equal.
  • raves +1   [-] by bob
    i agree
  • raves     [-] by doc

    Answered Cheating with a hooker

    Getting a hooker costs money so it would've been premeditated. With an affair, you could always say that it just happened.
  • raves +1   [-] by nltsierra

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    Both are BAD, why stay married if you just want to cheat. Not nice to hurt someone who at one time you loved enough to marry.
  • raves     [-] by Scott's sodahead

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    there both bad
  • raves     [-] by dmarkowitz

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    Well, how it would feel to the spouse aside, having a separate relationship would generally be worse, as opposed to just a fling with a prostitute. The relationship has both sexual and emotional issues likely, and it means there's a lot more wrong with the marriage. Of course, it really depends on the affair - if it's just sexual, then it's not much different from the prostitute. In either case, both are signs of problems with the marriage.
  • raves     [-] by shortny7

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    i dont like neither but an affair is worse cause that means basically they have feelings for another person
  • raves +2   [-] by Fef

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    Both suck and would most likely ruin a relationship. However, cheating for sex and not a relationship probably poses less threat to the partner and poses the bigger chance for reconciling the marriage.
  • raves +3   [-] by Bambi

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    Really I am undecided. At least if it's with a hooker there is no chance or a relationship and it is just sex. With an affair they end up being relationships and can potentially lead into a relationship. I think it would hurt worse to have my mate fall in love with someone else than to cheat. Sex is just sex but love is a whole different story.
  • raves +2   [-] by Kitten

    Answered Cheating in an affair

    They are both bad but I think if you're having an affair then you have some emotional feelings for that person. A hooker is just an object.
  • raves +1   [-] by Kimmi L

    Answered Cheating with a hooker

    They're both equally as bad. Cheating is wrong, period, point blank!
  • raves +1   [-] by bob
    I agree with you