Mar 17, 2008 04:40PM GMT
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Relationships - Other
When married and caught cheating which is worse?
I simultaneously had both dreams about this. God forbid the day I cheat on my wife.-
Answered Cheating in an affair
A slut is worth less then a real person, but depending on who the real person is. If the real person is someone you hate, then it would be far worse. But anyways, a slut being cheated on with shows the person thinks you are like worth like the slut, money, or they are probably drunk/high and went to a strip joint. An affair, is more the full cheating, and like once you leave and remarry with cheating, it will follow you. Your kids usually will not forgive you. I have been cheated on etc etc, but never had children, hopefully I don't have any from this recent loss of virginity >< -
Answered Cheating in an affair
i say both are bad..but cheating in an affair, b/c its gone way past physical and into emotional. hypothetically speaking, i wouldnt get as upset if my hubby had a one night stand as if he were to have an affair. one night stand it was just a one time, wham bam thank you mam' kinda thing, with an affair, he's putting thought, time and feelings into it. If he's not going to love me 100% then i consider that worse than ANY amount of sex he could have with random chicks! (am i wierd for thinking like that? lol) -
Answered Cheating in an affair
Well, how it would feel to the spouse aside, having a separate relationship would generally be worse, as opposed to just a fling with a prostitute. The relationship has both sexual and emotional issues likely, and it means there's a lot more wrong with the marriage. Of course, it really depends on the affair - if it's just sexual, then it's not much different from the prostitute. In either case, both are signs of problems with the marriage. -
Answered Cheating in an affair
Really I am undecided. At least if it's with a hooker there is no chance or a relationship and it is just sex. With an affair they end up being relationships and can potentially lead into a relationship. I think it would hurt worse to have my mate fall in love with someone else than to cheat. Sex is just sex but love is a whole different story.
Answered Cheating in an affair
Really I am undecided. At least if it's with a hooker there is no chance or a relationship and it is just sex. With an affair they end up being relationships and can potentially lead into a relationship. I think it would hurt worse to have my mate fall in love with someone else than to cheat. Sex is just sex but love is a whole different story.