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Answered Yes. I feel replenished everytime I yell and shake the heck out my husband/wife's shoulders.
I think the only way to get over your problems is to talk about them, even if that means arguing. Granted, we're not violent with eachother, we do have some heavy fights sometimes lol -
Answered Yes. I feel replenished everytime I yell and shake the heck out my husband/wife's shoulders.
The sarcasm in this 'yes' category certainly destroys the usefulness of this question. Any communication is good between people with different viewpoints. 'Squabbling' denotes a certain disrespectful crudity - but sometimes, that is the only communication tool many folks can bring to the table.... -
Answered Yes. I feel replenished everytime I yell and shake the heck out my husband/wife's shoulders.
It's better to let your anger out. If you keep it to yourself you'll just keep thinking about it and stressing yourself out, but if you get it off your chest you'll feel much better and maybe even realize that it wasn't that big of a deal in the first place. -
Answered Yes. I feel replenished everytime I yell and shake the heck out my husband/wife's shoulders.
Not the yelling and shaking. But if the real questions get asked and some answers come out then arguments are good. Holding in things you need to say for weeks or months make a fight about "taking out the trash" a fight when discussion at the first "slight" of ones feelings could do well in making the marriage last over the long haul. And anger bottled up comes out in all the wrong places, and even makes you the one to suffer. -
Answered Yes. I feel replenished everytime I yell and shake the heck out my husband/wife's shoulders.
I don't agree with the shake part of this answer, since arguements should never become physical, but yes I think fighting is a healthy and much needed expression in a relationship. So long as you're not fighting ALL the time, and you can keep it respectful. -
Answered Yes. I feel replenished everytime I yell and shake the heck out my husband/wife's shoulders.
Arguing is a heathly part of a relationship. Just like communication, trust, love, intimacy. To have a well rounded relationship and one that will last you need all components. -
Answered Yes. I feel replenished everytime I yell and shake the heck out my husband/wife's shoulders.
I also think it's good for your relationship. Get everything off your chest, so that there is not harbored resentment, and also to remind each other why you got married to begin with. -
Answered Yes. I feel replenished everytime I yell and shake the heck out my husband/wife's shoulders.
I think it's good to get things out and clear the air. And it makes a marriage interesting, if there were absolutely no problems then things can get a little boring, lol -
Answered Yes. I feel replenished everytime I yell and shake the heck out my husband/wife's shoulders.
Great for the health, always gets the blood flowing, Bad for anything else, doesn't do any good. With great calmness and logic you tell her wnat to do and then she does what she wants anyway, Why she asks is beyond me. -
Answered No. This can't be true, I am going bald because of arguing with my wife/husband!
It is important to discuss disagreements to keep them from festering. Angry arguments and fighting are not only juvenile, they increase anxiety. The marriage partners need to search for win/win solutions (not always easy) instead of engaging in lose/lose squabbling. The study is correct that holding in anger is not good for you. Squabling and arguing just makes both partners angry and solves nothing. -
I guess, that insecurity, and fear of moving on, prevents many people from doing so. If something ever, were to put me, in a situation, that it would be bad for me, and my children, my family would help me out. We are so tight. I have two wonderful brothers, and my parents are still around, and doing well. They would come in, and haul my butt out of here. Even if it were not abuse. If it were serious fighting, my family would intervene.
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I agree. I wonder, how her mother was treated. My parents are on a very equal playing field. I was taught, to be independant, and to stand on my own two feet. It was my decision, to be a stay at home mom, and a homemaker. It was not out of a belief, in the patriarchal way.
Answered Yes. I feel replenished everytime I yell and shake the heck out my husband/wife's shoulders.
As long as it is not all the time and no violence involved