Apr 22, 2008 01:47PM GMT
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Relationships - Other
Do you think its wrong i'm 15 ingaged and about to move out in a couple of months to go live wit my fiance??
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raves posted May 10, 2008 05:06AM GMT
Answered Yes
you are way too young. you haven't even finished school yet. you should atleast wait until you finish school and see if you both still feel the same way about each other. if it is ment to be now it will still be ment to be later. don't rush things -
raves posted May 09, 2008 02:20PM GMT
Answered No
ENGAGED.....If you get married and move in with him you will totally regret it bc you will end up pregnant you will drop out of school and then when you need education the most you will be SOL...I am 16 and engaged but I am waiting until I finish HS because I want to have something to fall back on and I know that if I drop out then I will become nothing and I will let myself down.. if it is LOVE he will be willing to wait and if he doesn't wait then its not love -
raves posted May 09, 2008 04:22AM GMT
Answered Yes
nothing lasts forever love included and if your asking this q then you are insecure about your relationship to a certain degree anyway i hope you dont fall head over heels for this guy and end up with a few kids under 21 no education or anything to support your self and he tells you its over i have been there guys tell you what you want to hear! just stay at home get an education so you have something to fall back on once you do have kids and your relationship stuffs up you have to think of the worst first to get the best out of life your man should be mature enough to realize these things too before he pops any kind of question to you and if he isnt then you should not get married! good luck! -
raves +1 posted May 09, 2008 01:24AM GMT
Answered Undecided
First of all, none of us can tell you what is wrong or right, because there is no universal right or wrong. Second, you are probably having doubts about the engagement or else you wouldn't have asked this question. As a person who cares, and you want to hear our opinion, I believe that you are going too fast. I know that when you fall in love it seems like the happiest moment of your life, and you feel that nothing cango wrong, but that is not how it works. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 yrs now, and we don't live together, and we are thinking about a future together. But we are not going to do it right away because when people go too fast, you miss out on a bunch of great experiences with the person you love. if I think back to 2 years ago, it would have been crazy to have moved in with my boyfriend (we didn't even consider it) because it would not have worked out. You have a lot of arguments and dilemmas coming your way, so you should wait until you have gone through some of those in order to be sure of your decision. But please, don't throw your life away with regrets :) -
raves posted May 08, 2008 09:40PM GMT
Answered Yes
You are 15. Where are your parents? You need to take a step back and think about what your life would be like if your would be husband is not who you think he is. I assume that you wrote this question because you are not sure that you should do it. Fallow your instincts, and don't drop out, even though it seems like the right thing to do. Find someone you trust, not him, that you can talk to about this and maybe get alternatives just in case. Life is not all roses all the time, and you are too young to through your childhood away. If he loves you now, he will love you when you are 18. If he can't wait for you then his love may not be as strong as you need it to be. True love is not something to be rushed. -
raves posted May 08, 2008 08:16PM GMT
Answered Yes
Even people in their early 20s are probably too young for living together. :-) You have too much self-identity left to form, you want to do that yourself based on being around a bunch of people and picking and choosing the traits you like and internalizing them (this is usually an unconsious act). If you move in with, let alone marry, one person this early you are really limiting your own potential growth. It's also not fair to your fiance, he or she also needs the opportunity to grow and change.
The life I envisoned for myself when I was 15 was so limiting, I am SOOOOO glad I moved beyond that. -
raves posted May 08, 2008 07:16PM GMT
Answered Yes
I dated somebody for 4 1/2 years when I was in high school. I thought I would love him forever and we would get married. That wasn't the case because I found somebody SO MUCH BETTER! I am now happily married to him! Don't get married so young, you will probably regret it! Plus, where are you living? How will you support yourself and your fiance? Do you have a job?? -
raves +1 posted May 08, 2008 02:28PM GMT
Answered Undecided
Fifteen and about to move in with your fiance? That's one hell of a huge step your going to take there mate! I wish you all the best, but... With your spelling, how will you find work, Is your fiance working a decent job that will allow him time off if you get sick, to look after the baby at least? Will he want to stick around after the baby's born? I'm 27 and about to become an uncle for the first time and I'm freaking out!
I wish you both all the best for the future and hope for better schooling for your your baby. -
raves +2 posted May 08, 2008 05:33AM GMT
Answered Yes
first I think you should finish school. your spelling is terrible. At your age, you should be more concerned with school and a career. Then, if you have time, have a boyfriend. No way you should be engaged at 15 years old. What do your parents think about that? I certainly wouldnt stand for that from my 15 year old daughter. -
raves posted May 07, 2008 08:36PM GMT
Answered Undecided
im 17 ingaged and moving out next yr...so i cant say yurwrong but how long have yallbeen dating?lik me and my fiance are now 3yrs and 8mths..so i think thats fine and we have a kid,so i guess it depends on how long n what have yall been throu? -
raves posted May 07, 2008 01:54AM GMT
Answered Yes
im sorry but if you were my daughter you wouldn't be engaged or moving out...i love my kids way too much to let them waste their life with a man or woman at the young age of 15...now if you were like 17 or 18 it would be ok...yeah i would still think you were too young but 15 is not even old enough to drive let alone get married and move out. -
raves posted May 04, 2008 02:30AM GMT
Answered Undecided
I have been there....in those shoes of yours.....and people can tell you all day long what they think...but you will do want you want any way.....but if you had a crystal ball and could see in the future....you would have second thoughts...At 15 I would guess you do not have a high school diploma...and the age of your fiance you did not mention?
"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't."
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raves +2 posted May 03, 2008 11:44PM GMT (edited)
Answered Yes
YES. First of all darlin you have to know how to spell 'ENGAGED' before you can do anything. And you need to go back to school and get an education, please, do yourself a favor and stay in school. and you are legally not allowed to move out unless you are emancipated from your parents, or until you are 18. There is no reason to rush into things at the age of 15, i mean seriously you have only been a teenager for 2 years, come on now. I know parents suck sometimes but they really do know whats best for you. -
raves +1 posted May 03, 2008 10:31PM GMT (edited)
Answered Yes
All I can say is dont do it. There is still so much more for you to experience. If you get married you wont be able to, and unless your mature enough to know how the wife thing works I guarantee you wont be able to handle it. Good luck to you and I hope you make the right decision. -
raves posted May 03, 2008 09:59PM GMT
Answered Undecided
I can't say anything, I'm 16 and inlove with my boyfriend who is 18 at the moment, but moving out and getting engaged is a little rushed at 15 don't you think? If this person really does love you and want to spend the rest of their life with you wouldn't they be okay with waiting until you get a steady job and get through at least high school? Good luck!
Answered Undecided
I think you are much too young.....many 15 year olds in love at the moment, and 6 months later all changes...do you have a job,can you support yourself,how about education?? wish you luck