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Is it ok to date your bestfriends ex?

raves +14   by lachica....{junebug} posted Jun 05, 2008 05:36AM GMTJune 05, 2008 05:36:05
Is it ok to date your bestfriends ex?
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raves +7   by SparkleyFlowers (LMAO WTF FTW) posted Jun 05, 2008 05:44AM GMTJune 05, 2008 05:44:20
SparkleyFlowers (LMAO WTF FTW) reply

Answered no

No. I'm pretty sure there is an unwritten rule about dating your friend's ex.
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  • raves +1   [-] by ksyvicks posted Jun 16, 2008 05:05AM GMTJune 16, 2008 05:05:25
    ksyvicks reply

    Answered no

    never
  • raves     [-] by emi posted Jun 12, 2008 01:41AM GMTJune 12, 2008 01:41:51
    emi reply

    Answered if they are ok with it

    depends how long ago was and how long was it thats what i think
  • raves     [-] by mslsa2u posted Jun 11, 2008 08:21PM GMTJune 11, 2008 20:21:40
    mslsa2u reply

    Answered no

    NO,NO,NO,NO I believe that that is is the most trifling thing anybody can do to another human being. I wouldn't won't anything my best friend has or ever had. And we have been best friends for 20yrs .If she didn't want him, what am i going to do with him.
  • raves     [-] by caroline52 posted Jun 11, 2008 03:06AM GMTJune 11, 2008 03:06:19
    caroline52 reply

    Answered no

    no no no no no!
  • raves     [-] by Katie posted Jun 10, 2008 08:39PM GMTJune 10, 2008 20:39:16
    Katie reply

    Answered if they are ok with it

    if your best friend is way over him and she doesnt mind then i dont see the harm in it.
  • raves     [-] by .Christine. .Twi-hard Fan. posted Jun 09, 2008 09:51PM GMTJune 09, 2008 21:51:47
    .Christine. .Twi-hard Fan. reply

    Answered if they are ok with it

    I think it depends on the kind of relationship your best friend and the guy had
  • raves +1   [-] by pd420 posted Jun 09, 2008 08:47PM GMTJune 09, 2008 20:47:55
    pd420 reply

    Answered if they are ok with it

    I guess if they were fine with it then it would not be a problem. Personally, I would not even want to. Everytime I was with them I would just think about my best friend...it would actually creep me out. Plus, I do not want their sloppy seconds...
  • raves     [-] by Bella posted Jun 08, 2008 10:30PM GMTJune 08, 2008 22:30:57
    Bella reply

    Answered yes

    i thinkso its there ex!
  • raves +1   [-] by Tracy posted Jun 08, 2008 04:18PM GMTJune 08, 2008 16:18:07
    Tracy reply

    Answered no

    No I think that's askin' for trouble! askin trouble
  • raves     [-] by NoNmr posted Jun 08, 2008 12:38PM GMTJune 08, 2008 12:38:05
    NoNmr reply

    Answered no

    For me, he's an unchartered territory and completely off-limits. And it should remain that way.

    :)
  • raves     [-] by I has a Lillee (Cass) posted Jun 07, 2008 07:19AM GMTJune 07, 2008 07:19:55
    I has a Lillee (Cass) reply

    Answered no

    nEvEr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...




    thats common sense........
    (ahhh he lovely unwritten laws of friedship)
  • raves     [-] by Lila posted Jun 06, 2008 10:31PM GMTJune 06, 2008 22:31:55
    Lila reply

    Answered no

    cuz if they say they're ok with most of the time it means they're not so yea no itz not ok
  • raves +1   [-] by chilee posted Jun 06, 2008 05:55AM GMTJune 06, 2008 05:55:34
    chilee reply

    Answered no

    it is so not right!!...if it were me i would be thinking that all along she has had her eyes on my boyfriend http://www.ratemyeverything.n...
  • raves +1   [-] by Miss Kellyy posted Jun 06, 2008 05:42AM GMTJune 06, 2008 05:42:05
    Miss Kellyy reply

    Answered no

    That would just be awkward.
  • raves +1   [-] by Julia posted Jun 06, 2008 05:26AM GMTJune 06, 2008 05:26:48
    Julia reply

    Answered if they are ok with it

    you should always ask your friend first....but if it was a meaningless relationship to them, or it ended on good terms.....i'm sure they would be fine with it
  • raves +1   [-] by Doc Mel - Obama - Biden 08 ; ) posted Jun 06, 2008 05:26AM GMTJune 06, 2008 05:26:23
    Doc Mel - Obama - Biden 08 ; ) reply

    Answered if they are ok with it

    That said, probably not, that is, unless she jumped me in a weak moment.
  • raves +2   [-] by Carole posted Jun 06, 2008 04:26AM GMTJune 06, 2008 04:26:53
    Carole reply

    Answered no

    Because it will look like you are picking the bones of her leftovers.
  • raves +2   [-] by Michelle Princess Pack Leader posted Jun 06, 2008 03:58AM GMTJune 06, 2008 03:58:16 (edited)
    Michelle Princess Pack Leader reply

    Answered no

    What a way to ruin a friendship! Even if they are ok with it......they arn't really! Women would be more upset with this senario than guys....imo!
  • raves +1   [-] by sarena12 posted Jun 06, 2008 03:55AM GMTJune 06, 2008 03:55:30
    sarena12 reply

    Answered if they are ok with it

    If it was a long time ago it probably doesn't matter.
  • raves     [-] by bill posted Jun 06, 2008 03:51AM GMTJune 06, 2008 03:51:13
    bill reply

    Answered yes

    unless you had sex with him before he was your best friends ex.
  • raves     [-] by Heart Broke Boi posted Jun 06, 2008 03:32AM GMTJune 06, 2008 03:32:33
    Heart Broke Boi reply

    Answered if they are ok with it

    I couldn't do that without their approval, that's such a dick move
  • raves     [-] by katexplusxlyn59 posted Jun 06, 2008 03:00AM GMTJune 06, 2008 03:00:40
    katexplusxlyn59 reply

    Answered if they are ok with it

    It's she says it's okay, he's fair game. If she's angry about it later, then you can always pull that card, "If it still bothered you, why would you tel me it's okay? Why would you lie to me that way?" Then she'll feel bad and apologize for being jealous. It's happened before. Katelyn
  • raves +1   [-] by sean fisher attourney at law posted Jun 06, 2008 02:41AM GMTJune 06, 2008 02:41:36
    sean fisher attourney at law reply

    Answered no

    my best friend is a girl so that would make me gay

    however i have dated a friends sister XD now as a joke i tell everyone to hide there relatives
  • raves +1   [-] by NC2242 posted Jun 06, 2008 02:37AM GMTJune 06, 2008 02:37:14
    NC2242 reply

    Answered no

    NEVER!!
  • raves +1   [-] by Icedragon1969 posted Jun 06, 2008 02:28AM GMTJune 06, 2008 02:28:32
    Icedragon1969 reply

    Answered yes

    Yes, if you don't mind losing your best friend.
  • raves +2   [-] by Nate Hussein SD posted Jun 06, 2008 02:22AM GMTJune 06, 2008 02:22:44
    Nate Hussein SD reply

    Answered no

    This must be a girl asking this question.

    When your best friend breaks up with some one you just did too. The world is a big place, find some one else. Hooking up with your best friends ex is pathetic.
  • raves +1   [-] by Chickidi posted Jun 06, 2008 01:45AM GMTJune 06, 2008 01:45:22
    Chickidi reply

    Answered no

    No not all cuz mayb ur friend still has felling bout this kid even if they say they r ok with it dont do it. Its just pain rude!
  • raves +1   [-] by Bite Me (XSA) posted Jun 06, 2008 01:42AM GMTJune 06, 2008 01:42:41
    SodaHead is online! Bite Me (XSA) reply

    Answered no

    You dont want to go there! You just think you do.
  • raves +3   [-] by Flash Gordon posted Jun 06, 2008 01:34AM GMTJune 06, 2008 01:34:35
    Flash Gordon reply

    Answered yes

    If you want an ex bestfriend too.
  • raves +2   [-] by *[VIVIANA]* posted Jun 06, 2008 01:05AM GMTJune 06, 2008 01:05:19
    *[VIVIANA]* reply

    Answered no

    hells no!! and if u did... wat the hell are u thinking!!?? that is not okay because u are betreying ur bestfriend BIG time!!!!! dont really belive ur rind if they say that its okay... is inside they are thinking.. if she does go out with him, i will never talk to her again!
  • raves +1   [-] by JENNY posted Jun 06, 2008 12:26AM GMTJune 06, 2008 00:26:10
    JENNY reply

    Answered yes

    ya if she or he dosent get mad
  • raves +2   [-] by concerned posted Jun 06, 2008 12:08AM GMTJune 06, 2008 00:08:17
    concerned reply

    Answered no

    why would you want her left overs .....find your own man
  • raves +1   [-] by cassie posted Jun 05, 2008 11:50PM GMTJune 05, 2008 23:50:23 (edited)
    cassie reply

    Answered no

    no because i know how i was when my best friend dated one of my ex's it never turns out good. me and her haven't talked in like 8 months.