I understand you wanting to feel safe, but it is irrational to fear someone that you are making a conscious effort to harrass yourself. Cacheman has not had any issues with you chatting with me...yet you say that he makes you scared and confused. That is a very serious allegation, Rafferty, and it is not fair.

I do not understand Aspergers, and I wish I did. I`d like you to teach me, but without pointing fingers, at those who you do not know, whether or not they are womanizers, or abusers. You cannot make these gross generalizations.

I wish you only the best, Rafferty. On Sodahead, you are more a danger to yourself. That is why I created the Girl`s Room. :-)))

I don't expect an apology, Raff. :-)) But I do ask that you not insult my friend, ok? Not to him, and not to me. I really do not like it, when men out of the blue email me on here. If they do that, it is because they want to say something to me, that cannot be said in the open.

You annoyed him, by emailing him. I don't like when men on here email me.

it was horrible,the smell of smoke upsets me to this day!

Why do you feel unwelcome? does this have anything to do with Cacheman and myself?

no the repair man was from the soda company the guy who plugged it was the owner of the laundramat's son

august 24th

originally i was afine arts major but sadly my mother did not understand the need for endless art supplies and would complain and not buy them for me so i dropped out of art school. i was on my was to becoming a psychologist and going into my transfer year from a comminity college to a university when our apt. building caught on fire and i was killed in the fire but revived .i had 3rd degree burns on the back of my neck and my hand,smoke inhalation is what kills you. i missed out on going to the university for my psych degree and decided to go into nursing to help people . i have found that i enjoy working with the elderly who are so often forgotten by their families and so alone.

you are welcome!! your art is who you are and you are good . don't let anyone take that away from you!

on your art?/ keep it up!